Christmas...

The first definition of family (used dictionary.com) is "parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not." Why do I bring this up you ask? Well, it's the simple fact that as Christmas draws near people are once again strongly reminded of this thing we call "family". In today's society we find that the strong sense of family is fading for the more selfish view of making oneself more important/powerful. Today as I sit thinking about Christmas (and holidays in general) I wonder why this is.

Where has our love and compassion gone to, in order to make us disreguard are own blood and focus on ourselves?? In this season based on love, togetherness, and giving, I am adding to the definition of family. My family is anyone who needs me at that moment. Not what they can do for me but what I can do for them and all that jazz. I am begging all of you who read this to find your sense "family" and act lovingly towards those who are not only blood or friends but also strangers.

This is the perfect time to volunteer at soup kitchens or even just buy a toy for toys for tots and bless a child. Many schools have food drives for the less fortunate people who won't be able to make a christmas meal without help. There are plenty of ways to be an active member of the HUMAN FAMILY. From my heart, I hope you will join me in doing this so that Christmas this year can be one full of Love, based on giving as it is supposed to be.

Also, heal your relationships with your own family. Love starts at home so if at all possible try to resolve a rift within your own life before taking that love out into the world. And if not possible- there's a whole world that could use a bit of holiday cheer.

This is based in part on my post at myspace about families. You can view it here & I'm sure once read you will understand my need to bring this up. Anyways, I hope you all have a safe and wonderful Christmas!