little bit on love

This is from an old blog i had about Zack. It's the funniest way to realize a truth about love... that love is a matter of acceptance and therefore a choice.

from a lever commercial in 2005-
"part 422 may not be perfect to you but for her it is just right"

Strange thing is i remember the first time I saw the commercial and how I immediately thought of him and how perfect he was to my blinded eyes. I remember thinking they'd hit something on the head(not that i changed soaps or anything but still good point being made). No matter how imperfect you feel about yourself, there's someone loving you thinking the world of you. Love is not always passion but it is always passionate and strong. It is a gift you can give freely. It is something that grows by being given away. I may not know you personally but i can still love you as a person. I can love my parents differently than my children and then love a man in a completely different way. Love has no real definition greater than the level of acceptance you have for the person you are loving (in this case part 422 being perfect in your eyes but not his). Love is something you can fall into fall out of but it is not something you can be without. All people need it- not want it- need it. So tonight i have reviewed love of mine for of an ex-lover, the love of my mother for her children, and the love of a friend for me. It has all brought me to this insane posting at 2 am to say one thing: WORLD- I love you just as you are with full acceptance with an attempt at no judgement but with the compassion of a close friend. And you know what? It makes me love me a little bit more.